You need to know that your heart is not always going to feel strong, that you need to forgive yourself for all the times you did not show others your very best. Forgive yourself for the times you are not able to see the best in yourself. If you’re worried that the people around you are judging you and cannot see you as a dynamic, multifaceted, emotional human being, then they are not the kind of people you need to concern yourself with.
Our happiness is not contingent, our peace is inherent.
Part of “loving yourself” is being honest with yourself about when it’s time to make a change, and not for the sake of appeasing others or the little gremlins in your head.
Reminder to: Loving yourself. Being true to yourself. Having confidence in yourself. That’s the way to saving yourself.
Learning to dance in public without pretense is incredibly liberating, and people will envy you for it.
When you don’t love someone, you just don’t. And there is no way to soften that, or make it sound better, or provide any kind of runner-up consolation prize that isn’t a complete slap in the face. There are often just those unrequited feelings which leave one person feeling like an anthropomorphic pile of feces and the other like the world’s biggest asshole. But that’s life.
Weak people believe in revenge. Strong people believe in forgiving. And Intelligent people believe in ignoring.